“For the sake of your son’s safety[...]“
Bipolar, Life, Parenting, Rants, School August 15th, 2007“[...]it is our strong recommendation that you make arrangements for your son to be picked up from school today instead of riding the bus home. It has been brought to our attention that further threats to his person have been made and until we have arrested those who forced their way onto the bus yesterday and attacked him, which should be later this afternoon, we recommend he not ride the school bus.”
That was from the phone call I received from Campus Police about an hour or so ago concerning the drama that occurred yesterday with Boy #1. I assume the “we” she was referring to was County Police/Deputies in cooperation with Campus Police. Yeap. Nothing like teen drama on a bus that serves quite the varied social populous. Seems that one of the kids who plays him as a fair weather friend played off some of his own remarks about one of these thugs little brothers and passed them off as Boy #1’s remarks. Impossible as Boy #1 no longer has anything to do with this kid since he gave him candy towards the end of the last school year and it turned out to be meth (took a $25 drug test to figure it out) and we spent several hours helping him go through the tweaking out phase of a first time user. Oh yes, as if parents don’t have enough to worry about, 12-14 year olds are actually giving meth away, telling other students that it’s candy because that’s the new trend, flavoring the crap so it tastes like candy. F*ckers. So the boy has had it out for Boy #1 since he and I reported it to the proper officials at the school and the police department.
Two neighborhood drop-out thugs from up the street forced their way onto the school bus yesterday afternoon and proceeded to pound the crud out of Boy #1. Had this happened out on the street I would have understood if he fought to defend himself. However, this was on the school bus and I’ve got to say that as sick as it might sound to others, I’m proud of him for keeping his hands to himself and not fighting back. I’m so very proud that he was able to maintain that much control of himself. Why should I be? Because he is normally very impulsive due to the bipolar disorder and being a teenager, he acts without thinking and in the past that has gotten him written up and suspended from the bus more times than I care to remember.
He maintained control. That means his meds are working. Belittle me if you wish but I’m proud of him. The result is that this time, the punks that started this are going to be charged with assault and battery and my son isn’t getting yet another mark on his school record.








August 18th, 2007 at 1:15 pm
Aw, shit, Chelle. Do you have any idea how high my blood pressure just spiked? Not because you’re applauding yuour son — I’m impressed with his self-restraint, too.
I’m furious about those kids. How the hell do teenagers “force their way” on to a school bus? Why didn’t the driver stop them?
Lawsuit time, baby.
August 18th, 2007 at 2:59 pm
This week, Kate, I wouldn’t know whom to file a lawsuit against first. Well I do. The BOE, the question is which department. The transportation department that allowed this to happen, the campus police department that allowed for more threats to be made by students forcing their way onto the bus the rest of the week until yesterday when campus police finally made their arrests or the special educational services department due to the teachers that are refusing to comply with Boy #1’s IEP. They seem to be unable to comprehend that an IEP is a legal binding document.